A Bad Relationship Can Break Your Heart

A bad relationship can tear your world apart, break your heart and completely break your life.

We usually regret being with that person who hurts us so much. However, a relationship is a matter of two and, on certain occasions, even the damaged one has their share of responsibility.

What do we mean by responsibility? We are referring to the fact of giving second chances, of trying one more time, of not being able to move on, without looking back, because of the belief that we have failed in our relationship.

However, all these attempts to make the relationship work, overcome all the bumps, admit and solve the mistakes, will only wear us down and turn off the light that previously illuminated us.

A light that was synonymous with happiness. It is true that, on many occasions, a second chance is positive. Mistakes can strengthen a couple if they know how to handle the issue in the right way.

Taking time in this delicate moment, in which we observe how everything is in tatters, will be essential to obtain a new perspective of everything that is happening. Only in this way will we be able to make the right decision.

There are many situations that can break your heart and are compounded by not knowing how to say “goodbye” and just wait for things to change.

Situations that can break your heart

Next, we will give some examples of how in certain relationships – depending on their context – it is necessary to move away as soon as possible:

1. Cheating partner

An infidelity can be overcome as long as the cheater knows what it means to continue the relationship with the person who failed. On the other hand, the person victim of this infidelity must learn to forgive and eliminate any resentment that resides in his being.

If your partner is the second time that he has been unfaithful to you, but he keeps promising to change, that he will never do it again and you know that it is a lie, he will break your heart again and again.

If you decide to give second chances when you know that you will not be able to forget, that you will always have that thorn in your side, the relationship will not come to fruition no matter how much effort you make.

2. Dependent partner

Many people understand love as attachment. They tie themselves to others for fear of being alone, that no one wants them, that no one person approves of their decisions and actions.

They are individuals lacking security, with low self-esteem and who always seek to tie themselves to those who can do the most harm to them.

Don’t replace one addiction with another. Don’t get out of a relationship, start to get overwhelmed and look for another. It is necessary to spend time alone, learn to love yourself before someone else.

Dependency can cause you to be with someone who can break your heart. However, this is because you yourself, with your addiction, create a relationship full of obsession and destruction.

3. Battered partner

In this case, we can speak of both physical and emotional abuse. Two attacks that usually go together and that can break your heart.

The fear that invades you prevents you from escaping from your executioner whose actions you are trying to justify because you love him very much.

However, whoever loves you will never hit you, or humiliate you, or try to submit to you. You need to feel free even if you are with someone in a relationship.

How to recover your life after constant abuse of months and even years? With work, time and a lot of patience, and without falling, again, into the same mistake.

We have seen three types of a bad relationship – there are many more – that can break your heart because they are not balanced or healthy.

When these two keys do not exist in a union, destruction, sadness and an unpredictable end are assured.

Protects your heart

We must protect our hearts. Sometimes we give it away as if it was worth nothing. We believe that others will make us happy, that by giving everything we will be rewarded in the same way.

But, sometimes, thorns, debris, remains that hurt us are returned to us and that make us believe that it is what we deserve.

We know what we deserve and this is not it. So let’s start loving and taking care of ourselves, because no one is going to do it for us.